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When You Stop Fighting Yourself: The Healing Power of Acceptance
When the old strategies stop working, life strips you down to what is real. This piece explores how unconditional love reveals the truth, and unconditional acceptance ends the war inside you. When you stop resisting the moment, fear dissolves and balance finally returns. Continue reading
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Living Inside-Out: The End of the Fear-Based, Socially Constructed Identity
When the fear-based, socially constructed identity collapses, the authentic self finally emerges. This post explores what it means to live inside-out — from fear to love, from survival to truth. Continue reading
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Mountainfish: The Bright Lights of Asheville — Fish Who Know They Were Meant to Fly
A love letter to Asheville, its artists, healers, and bright lights, and to the truth that love and compassion can move through any barrier. Written in gratitude for Asheville Community Yoga’s fifteen year anniversary (October 12, 2025). Continue reading
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Death to the Bobblehead: Breaking the Tower of Fear to Rise in Love
The bobblehead is the socially constructed identity built on lies. It keeps us afraid, alone, and separate. It’s time to pull down the tower and let the serpent rise. Continue reading
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The Value of Darkness
“Darkness is not the absence of light, but the threshold that holds it. What feels lost is often waiting to be revealed.” Continue reading
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The Resonator
When the mind stops dominating and the body leads, we return to coherence with life. The Resonator is a map back to that original signal. Continue reading
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The Light and the Lie
For as long as I can remember, I couldn’t see the light.Not in myself.Not in anyone else. Without it, I couldn’t trust.Not my instincts.Not my mind.Not the people around me. At some point, my mind had already fled.Split off in self-preservation,When my body encountered a truth it couldn’t bear. The friend who was also a Continue reading
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Dabrowski’s Lost Children
We were never brokenWe were never selfishWe were never sick We were born sensitiveGiftedIntense What the world called dysfunction was overexcitabilityThe kind that sees deeperFeels harderThinks endlesslyImagines wildlyLoves without limits We had too much emotionToo much thoughtToo much empathyToo much energyToo much soul for a world that did not know how to hold it So Continue reading
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You Are Not Broken: Discovering Your True Self
For a long time, I thought I was the broken one. The one who couldn’t get it right. The one who always fell short. I believed I was the darkness to everyone else’s light. But that wasn’t the truth. The truth is, I was the light trying to find my way out of the darkness. Continue reading
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Truth
This is the beginning of a story that isn’t about illness, or even healing in the way we think of it. It’s about what happens when the veil is lifted, and the self, the true self, comes out from hiding. It’s about love, about Michael, about the sacred marriage between what we were taught to Continue reading
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Dabrowski’s Lost Children
You mattered before anyone told you that you didn't
I write for people who learned that it was not safe for them to exist as they were.
The center was never lost. It was never allowed to form. It was beaten underground. What collapses is not you, but the false center built to survive. The true center is intrinsic. It does not collapse.
